Robert Downey Jr. deeply values his role as a father to his three children. The actor has two sons, Exton Elias Downey and Avri Roel Downey, with his wife, Susan Downey, and one son, Indio Falconer Downey, with his former wife, Deborah Falconer.
Indio, born in 1993, is Robert’s eldest child, while Exton was born in 2012 and Avri arrived in 2014, just shy of Robert turning 50. Reflecting on fatherhood during a 2014 interview, Robert shared that becoming a father later in life allowed him to be more present for his children, focusing solely on his family and career without the distractions of youth.
Avri Roel, Robert’s youngest, joined the family in 2014 just before his 50th birthday
Although Robert doesn’t often post images of his children, he occasionally shares moments, such as a 2022 video where his kids helped him prepare for a role in The Sympathizer, playfully shaving his head.
His children also appeared in his 2023 series Downey’s Dream Cars, which Robert described as a fun experience. Indio wrote an episode, while Exton and Avri made appearances, with Robert noting how each child brought their unique personality to the project.
In 2024, during his Oscar win for Oppenheimer, Robert made sure to express his deep love and admiration for his children. Here’s a closer look at his three children.
Indio Falconer Downey, 31
Indio Falconer Downey is Robert’s first child, born on September 7, 1993, with his former wife Deborah. Although Robert and Deborah divorced in 2004 after eight years of marriage, Indio remained largely out of the public eye.
He made a few appearances alongside his father, including playing a younger version of Robert’s character in Kiss Kiss Bang Bang. Indio has also pursued music, performing with his band, Indio Ink, formerly The Dose.
Robert has shown his pride in his son’s talent, sharing on Instagram his awe of Indio’s musicianship during a recording session. For Indio’s 30th birthday, Robert posted a heartfelt tribute, praising his son’s deep character and artistic dedication.
Exton Elias Downey, 12
Born on February 7, 2012, Exton Elias Downey is Robert and Susan’s first child together. During a 2012 appearance on The Tonight Show, Robert shared a photo of his son and explained the story behind his unique middle name. Exton, who appeared in the 2022 Netflix documentary Sr., was naturally involved in his father’s career from an early age.
Robert fondly reflected on the healthy, balanced environment Exton now experiences, contrasting it with his own Hollywood childhood. Exton also appeared in Downey’s Dream Cars in 2023, where he humorously poked fun at Robert’s car skills, showcasing his own burgeoning confidence.
Avri Roel Downey, 10
Avri Roel Downey, Robert and Susan’s daughter, was born on November 4, 2014. Robert shared the news of her arrival on Facebook, humorously calling her the “fall/winter project” of Team Downey, referencing their production company.
Her middle name, Roel, is a tribute to both Robert and Susan’s parents. In November 2021, Robert shared a playful video from Avri’s 7th birthday, showing himself dressed as a piñata and joking about giving the children “mob violence” for entertainment. Like her brothers, Avri made an appearance in Downey’s Dream Cars in 2023, alongside Exton and Indio, contributing to the family’s shared creative experiences.
