Their decade-long relationship has flourished, showcasing a stability that contrasts with Eva Longoria’s earlier marriages to actor Tyler Christopher and NBA player Tony Parker. The actress credits her ability to embrace solitude before meeting businessman José Bastón, affectionately known as Pepe, as a major factor in their successful partnership.
“I learned to be content on my own,” she shared with People. “I think I needed that to be ready for what I have with Pepe.” This journey of love has evolved from their initial meetings to a life filled with shared moments and a family.
Longoria and Bastón first crossed paths on two occasions before developing romantic feelings. In a 2017 interview with People, she recalled, “I was getting out of a bad relationship, and he was getting out of a relationship, so there wasn’t a connection. So, we had a pleasant conversation, but there was no real connection.”
Eva Longoria credits her decade-long relationship with José Bastón to embracing solitude before they met
However, six months later, they met again through the same mutual friend, igniting an immediate chemistry that left her breathless. “It was like the cliché angels singing, and there was a glow around him,” she described, captured by his charm and charisma.
“He was the most handsome man I’d ever seen. I thought, ‘Who is this guy?!’” The very next day, they embarked on a four-hour lunch date, marking the beginning of a profound connection.
Their relationship took a public turn when they made their red carpet debut on November 15, 2013, at the Museo Jumex Opening dinner. Longoria expressed her appreciation for Bastón in March 2014, saying, “I’m attracted to humor and intellect in a man.
Let me tell you, I’m very lucky in my life.” Their bond continued to grow, culminating in a romantic proposal in Dubai in December 2015, when Bastón presented her with a stunning ruby engagement ring surrounded by diamonds.
Longoria shared her excitement on Instagram, posting a photo of the couple kissing despite beautiful sand dunes, captioning it, “Ummmm so this happened….#Engaged #Dubai #Happiness.”
As the couple basked in the joy of their engagement, Longoria revealed that wedding planning was still a future discussion. “We haven’t even discussed it,” she explained on Today. “I’m still in the glow of the engagement, and it was such a surprise … so we’re still absorbing that moment.” She went on to describe her fiancé as “amazing, gorgeous, and really the kindest human being I’ve ever met,” while hinting at their eventual plans for a wedding.
On May 21, 2016, they exchanged vows in a beautiful ceremony at Bastón’s home in Valle de Bravo, Mexico. Longoria donned a stunning dress by Victoria Beckham, who also participated in the ceremony as a bridesmaid.
Capturing the aim of their special day, Longoria posted on Instagram, expressing her gratitude: “In our garden, surrounded by a small gathering of people we love, Pepe and I tied the knot! #TalkAboutBlessed #ImStillFloating #OmgMyFeetHurt.” The star-studded event included guests like Ricky Martin, Mario Lopez, and David Beckham.
Reflecting on their wedding during the promotion of her film Lowriders, Longoria shared memorable details with reporters. “There were so many memorable moments,” she recalled, highlighting the surprises orchestrated by Bastón throughout the evening.
“So every half hour there was another surprise that I was like, ‘I can’t handle any more! My heart is going to explode!’” She fondly remembered laughing and smiling so much that her cheeks hurt.
Months after their wedding, Longoria expressed her blissful state of being. “People ask us how it is being married now, but we were always married in our hearts and our souls,” she remarked, emphasizing that their wedding was merely a celebration of their existing bond. “It’s amazing.
Our wedding didn’t change our relationship.” As their first anniversary approached, Longoria described their love, stating, “My husband is the best part of life,” and noted that their compatibility keeps the spark alive.
By December 19, 2017, the couple announced they were expecting their first child together, a baby boy. A source informed People that Longoria had become more open to the idea of motherhood after becoming a stepmom to Bastón’s children. On New Year’s Day 2018, she joyfully shared a photo of her baby bump, expressing gratitude for her family’s support and love.
Their son, Santiago Enrique, was born on June 19, 2018. Longoria celebrated his arrival with photos on social media, showcasing her pride and excitement. A year later, she honored Bastón on Father’s Day, expressing admiration for his role as a father to his three children and for the love he shares with their son.
In April 2022, Longoria took to Instagram to celebrate her husband’s birthday, praising him as the best human being she knows. She emphasized how he fills their family with love and deserves recognition every day.
By August 2022, she discussed on her podcast Connections the importance of finding love later in life, noting, “I found Pepe when I was 40 and he was 50—It was just like, ‘Can we just enjoy this life together?’”
At the 2023 LACMA Art + Film gala, Longoria reflected on the meaningful connection she shares with Bastón, recalling their first meeting among the iconic LACMA Lights. In April 2024, he joined her at a celebratory event, highlighting their continued support for one another.
By June 2024, Longoria shared insights about their son, praising his cultural awareness and love for travel. She expressed joy in how he engages with different cultures and languages. The couple made a charming appearance at the ELLE Gourmet Awards 2024 in Madrid, celebrating their enduring love and partnership.
