In 2018, Richard Gere and Alejandra Silva’s marriage sparked widespread attention, especially with the announcement of their plans to start a family despite their age gap. The couple’s relationship quickly became a topic of discussion, with sources close to them noting their deep happiness and strong bond.
A source shared at the time, “They’re incredibly content with one another, enjoy each other’s company, and are excited about their future together.” Their pregnancy journey began with a heartfelt moment when a photo of the Dalai Lama blessing Silva’s baby bump became their first public announcement.
A blessed beginning as Richard Gere and Alejandra Silva announce their first child
In February 2019, the couple welcomed their first son, Alexander, and just a few months later, they revealed that they were expecting another child, who arrived in April 2020, although his name remains undisclosed.
Silva shared a heartfelt tribute to Gere on his 75th birthday in August 2024 through a touching Instagram post. She wrote, “Even after 11 years, it still feels like we’ve just met. The journey we’ve had, the beautiful family we’ve built, and the memories we’ve made are beyond my dreams. You make everything better, and I’m forever grateful to have you with me.”
Later, in November 2024, Gere revealed that he and Silva, along with their children, would be relocating to Spain. Speaking on Today, he explained, “My wife is Spanish, and we’re moving there to embrace her culture and be closer to her family and friends. Our children are bilingual, so it’s going to be great for them.”
Silva, known for her humanitarian work, leads a foundation focused on combating homelessness in Spain. Rais Fundacion, which she runs, aims to eradicate homelessness within five years.
Silva has always been hands-on in her efforts, even sharing that she once slept on the streets to better understand the struggles faced by homeless individuals. “I’m not afraid to get my hands dirty,” she said, emphasizing her commitment to her cause.
Her father, Ignacio Silva Botas, had a career as the vice president of the Real Madrid soccer club from 1995 to 2000. He was also a successful businessman, and the family relocated to Madrid when Silva was young.
Growing up in Madrid’s elite circles, she attended prestigious private schools and formed connections with prominent figures, including soccer players like Roberto Carlos.
Silva has known Gere for many years, describing their relationship as a strong karmic connection. She once shared that Gere had been a family friend for over a decade, and when they reconnected, their bond was immediate.
“When there’s such powerful karmic energy, any age gap or Hollywood fame becomes irrelevant,” she said, reflecting on their unique connection. Before settling together, Silva and Gere maintained a long-distance relationship, coordinating visits when their children were with their respective ex-partners.
Richard Gere and family embrace a new chapter with their move to Spain
Silva revealed in 2015 that they made it a point to see each other every few weeks, never going more than 20 days apart. Eventually, Silva moved to New York to be closer to Gere, and they settled in a neighborhood where they were neighbors with Martha Stewart.
Gere even reached out to Stewart after seeing her make a caramel cake on Today, requesting one for his family. She later delivered the cake to their home as a gift.
Their private wedding ceremony in April 2018 marked the beginning of a new chapter in their lives. The couple hosted a celebration a month later in New York on Cinco de Mayo, where they invited Tibetan monks as part of their Buddhist traditions. Silva wore two custom-made dresses for the event.
Silva, like Gere, has a son from a previous marriage. She shares her son Albert with ex-husband Govin Friedland, son of American billionaire Robert Martin Friedland. The couple lived in Italy before separating in 2014.
Together with Gere, Silva has two sons: Alexander, born in February 2019, and another son, whose name remains a mystery, born in April 2020. Gere’s adult son, Homer James Jigme, from his marriage to ex-wife Carey Lowell, is also part of their blended family.
Activism plays a vital role in their lives, with both sharing a passion for humanitarian causes. Gere’s involvement with Rais Fundacion, especially his attendance at events benefiting the foundation, has been a key aspect of their relationship. Silva has expressed that Gere’s humanitarian spirit is one of the qualities that drew her to him. “What I love most about him is his empathetic, caring nature,” she said.
In May 2024, Silva and Gere attended the Cannes Film Festival, where they were joined by Gere’s son Homer for the premiere of Oh, Canada. The family walked the red carpet together, looking elegant alongside Uma Thurman, Gere’s co-star in the film.
