Marlo Thomas has been mourning the loss of her husband, Phil Donahue, who passed away three months ago. On Monday, Nov. 25, the 87-year-old, who has dedicated her efforts as the national outreach director at St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital—a facility founded by her father, Danny Thomas, in 1962—was absent from the Today show.
This marked the first time in 21 years she did not participate in launching the hospital’s annual Thanks & Giving campaign, which she started with her siblings.
Filling in for her was her brother, Tony Thomas. Savannah Guthrie acknowledged her absence, saying, “For the first time in the 21 years of our series, Marlo is not with us this morning. She’s taking some time off after the loss of her beloved husband, Phil Donahue.”
Reflecting on a beautiful love story now cherished in memory
Donahue, 88, passed away in August after battling a prolonged illness. A statement from the family shared with PEOPLE confirmed that he was surrounded by Marlo, his sister, his children, grandchildren, and their dog Charlie at the time of his passing. Hoda Kotb asked Tony about Marlo’s well-being following the loss, and he shared that she is “doing as best to be expected.”
Reflecting on their marriage, Tony described it as a “true love affair” that lasted 44 years. The couple, who tied the knot in 1980 after meeting on The Phil Donahue Show in 1977, had a bond that left an impression on everyone around them. “People couldn’t believe how close they were,” Tony remarked, adding that it will take time for her to process this loss fully.
Tony assured viewers that Marlo plans to return next year to continue supporting the campaign, which raises funds for St. Jude by collaborating with national brands. The Today show also continues its tradition of spotlighting inspiring stories of St. Jude patients and families benefiting from its services.
Savannah Guthrie sent a heartfelt message during the segment, saying, “Please give [Marlo] our love. We know she’ll be proud you’re here speaking about St. Jude, which means so much to her and your family.” She later added, “Marlo, if you’re watching, we love you.”
Tony also took a moment to honor their father’s vision for St. Jude, reflecting on its incredible legacy. “He’d be amazed but also shocked. It started so long ago, and in the early days, they were even writing checks just to cover payroll for doctors and scientists.”
